raealamode:

The Te Bitchslap* is an example of an ENFP’s Fi and Te working in concert:

Fi feels indignant about some perceived wrong +
Te decides to let the perpetrator of said perceived wrong know about it….
usually in excruciating detail in a very logical manner.
= ENFP Te Bitchslap

#1 – When…

Interesting read. I do this from time to time… but it takes me a lot to get to this point. The ‘power point presentation’ for tearing people down is a VERY accurate visual. So many people think that I’m all sunshine and rainbows, but that is a choice, not being naive. I’m always gathering facts and details, putting together peoples’ inner puzzles… to communicate to them better as individuals, that is… but it does act like incidental insurance, I guess. ENFPs have to learn to really control this, because if we wanted to hurt someone, we know EXACTLY how and where to hit them where it hurts the most… with thorough and accurate precision. 

I’m glad that I forgive easily. I really don’t like hurting people. I’d much rather hurt myself before anyone else, in fact.