The types as quotes from people with that type:

caveatspectator:

The types as quotes from actual people with that type:

ESFP – “Well the sales tax in Hawaii is really good so I had to buy couture shoes to capatalize on that.”

ESFJ – “You look sad. Do you want to talk about your nemesis? Will that help?”

ESTP – “I’m not saying I would have sex with myself, just that if there were three of me and the other two were; well, I’d watch.”

ESTJ – “It’s not that you’re wrong so much as you are breaking the rules, and the rules clearly state that you’re an idiot.”

ENFP – “Paint ball is better than lazer tag because there’s the potetial to get hurt and why bother otherwise.”

ENFJ – “This makes me want to write a haiku about my feelings, I’m going to put it on the back of my next mixtape.”

ENTP – “Please dont be dissapointed in me but I started a protest in class because I was bored.”

ENTJ – “I made you a list of why you’re wrong. It’s three pages and not even double spaced.”

ISFP – “I think if you look hard enough everybody is a tortured soul. Like Lana Del Ray.”

ISFJ – “I don’t know how to help I already made a casserole what do I do”

ISTP – “Go get the iodine I found my flame thrower.”

ISTJ – “You don’t understand, I love this venitian plaster wall more than you.”

INFP – “I made myself sad thinking about a divorced fox just now. His poor children.”

INFJ – “I don’t know I just had a feeling.”

INTP – “I could be lying but-” //walks away//

INTJ – “Have you considered lobotomising yourself in the name of science?”

weareyoooung:

Yuki and Shuichi!

guys for the record I’m sorry that I am basically Shuichi ;-; I try so hard not to get overbearingly annoying and obnoxious but it just happens sometimes when I get excited and I always feel awful when I realize that I’m making people upset 

so sorry

:’(

btw

iamtheniiiiight:

enfpconfessions:

gabappledc:

In case you didn’t know, I’m an ENFP. This means that I spend a great deal of  time worrying about if I’m good enough or doing a good job or worth anyone’s time and being too scared to talk to people for fear of bothering them especially with something as selfish as asking if they think I’m okay.

…which is a problem because we are so outwardly focused that we really can’t tell if we’re okay.

:I

someone hug me plz

Time for hugz.

i like to think of it as having this blind spot that our confidence leaks out of without someone to give us feedback and let us know we’re on target.  unfortunately, it’s no one’s job to do that.  

definitely no one’s job in my lab/work. 

definitely no friend’s job in terms of just doing okay as a human being/romantic partner.

and i have a lot of very very supportive friends.  it doesn’t matter how many or how often I see them.  It’s still a problem as soon as the feedback disappears.  No one to blame for that.  Definitely not them.  We ENFPs just have to surround ourselves with other kinds of tangible proof of our progress/well-being and think things through when we’re not all together sure how to feel.  

remember though, it’s always worth it for us to fill in that gap without needing constant reassurance, to find the resources that give us lasting trust in ourselves.  there are some personality types that are capable of excelling in nearly any field they care about.  we’re one of them.  we’re dynamic and full of possibilities.  those same natural tendencies are the ones that put paranoia and worry into us.  if we take the paranoia out of the equation, we make room to move forward.

and always remember, we constantly underestimate our self-worth.  we just do.  we measure ourselves against the infinite worlds of possibilities we build in our heads so when we don’t meet the great potential of those things or even if we do but we aren’t recognized for it, we feel dejected.  we’re worth so much more than we think.  to all you ENFPs out there, find the proof of the love and assurance you need and don’t let go.  hold onto the real stuff.  the stuff that makes you cry from joy that you’re doing okay.  because more than you think… you are.  you already are.  

and for all things good and holy in this world, surround yourself with people you can actually trust.  anything less while you’re building that confidence will tear you apart.  you’re an ENFP.  you’re probably naturally good at gauging human motivations.  you’ll know when you’ve found the right people.

i know i have.

Yes, perfect. Thank you. <3 <3 <3 

That confidence leak is so true. I, too, have lots of really amazing supportive friends… but the moment I’m alone… the good feelings just start to disappear. 

Thanks for the great tips and advice! I will do my best to follow. 🙂 

btw

In case you didn’t know, I’m an ENFP. This means that I spend a great deal of  time worrying about if I’m good enough or doing a good job or worth anyone’s time and being too scared to talk to people for fear of bothering them especially with something as selfish as asking if they think I’m okay.

…which is a problem because we are so outwardly focused that we really can’t tell if we’re okay.

:I

someone hug me plz

Rae a la Mode!: I learned about the ENFP betch-slap today.

Rae a la Mode!: I learned about the ENFP betch-slap today.