Every single relationship will get “boring” after you’ve been together for ages. Love isn’t a feeling, it’s a commitment; to love every day, physically and emotionally. It’s hard afff, it’s not always laughs and smiles and fun. People tend to quit when it stops being cute. “Oh the spark is gone.” No, that’s not how it works. You want somebody to never give up on you and love you unconditionally? Do the same. This isn’t Hollywood, this isn’t romantic happy ever after bs. Love someone when you don’t want to, when they are being a fricken asshole. When they’re being hard to love. That’s thats the realist shit there is.
Someone asked me a question about Victor, Yuri, and their relationship. Since I thought it would be interesting to do some analysis, I decided to rewatch some episodes and look for quotes to screencap (I’ll be working on that later on). I was rewatching episode 2 when we get to that scene of Victor banging on Yuri’s door, telling him to sleep together, and Yuri basically locking himself in.
And then I got this:
And then I noticed Victor’s face and my heart went ouch:
His phone’s right there. What if he watched Yuri’s performance of Stay Close to Me till he fell asleep, wondering how to get close to the one that keeps running away from him? His hair is unusually unkempt (unlike that first time they showed him sleeping), and those tears…
It appears skaters’ hearts are as fragile as glass, after all.
When somebody says that “a man likes to feel like a man,” all I hear is “A man likes to feel superior to you and it’s your job to make him believe it.”
Someone said this to me once, that a man needs to feel like a man, I replied “well I’m not stopping him” and had to watch this fragile creature try to explain to me that my strong personality could demean men.
Like, if I have to pretend you are a strong man and cater to that then clearly you’re not that strong dude.
“if I have to pretend you are a strong man and cater to that then clearly you’re not that strong dude.”
