{"id":743,"date":"2015-02-15T02:59:00","date_gmt":"2015-02-15T02:59:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/whiteknighthakuba\/index.php\/2015\/02\/15\/date-sweet\/"},"modified":"2015-02-15T02:59:00","modified_gmt":"2015-02-15T02:59:00","slug":"date-sweet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/whiteknighthakuba\/index.php\/2015\/02\/15\/date-sweet\/","title":{"rendered":"Date &amp; Sweet? ^-^"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strike> date: do you think age differences are a big deal?\u00a0<br \/>heart: talk about your crush\u00a0<\/strike><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>hug: how comfortable are you with physical contact?\u00a0<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/31.media.tumblr.com\/0e6881b0fc5186bc83ae7a8f5de5cb2a\/tumblr_inline_njsl57h1dR1rms2iz.jpg\" alt=\"image\" \/><\/figure>\n<p>&ldquo;It\u2019s all right, though I prefer to be the one that initiates until I\u2019m very comfortable with a person. Handshakes are generally fine, but I\u2019m particularly sensitive to people touching my back when I don\u2019t know them, or worse, when I explicitly distrust them.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&quot;For those that I <i>have<\/i>\u00a0let into my inner circle, though, little physical displays of affection are welcome and appreciated. For example, my mum likes to tug on my arm to get my attention, and Baaya often puts her hand on my shoulder blade. Both like to tug me down to kiss the top of my head, too, and I\u2019m fine with that (except in public because,<i>\u00a0god<\/i>, can they be any more embarrassing?).\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&quot;I do <i>not<\/i>\u00a0like random people rushing up and hugging me\u2026 or kissing me\u2026 or grabbing me and yanking me around. I don\u2019t like it when overly zealous people slap me on the back or hit me with their towels in the locker room. I\u2019m not fond of having my cheeks pinched, or any part of me handled without my express permission. It\u2019s awkward and terribly uncomfortable, and sends me into an anxiety-driven panic more quickly than just about anything else.\u201d<\/p>\n<blockquote><p> sweet: do you like candy and chocolate?<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/31.media.tumblr.com\/5e01b2cd7f484f7fb13b2ae803c5ccfb\/tumblr_inline_njsllidS951rms2iz.jpg\" alt=\"image\" \/><\/figure>\n<p>&quot;Of course I do! And unlike MOST of my fellow male colleagues, I am not ashamed to admit it! I tend to favor baked goods over <i>candy<\/i>, I suppose, but sweets are definitely one of my weaknesses.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>date: do you think age differences are a big deal?\u00a0heart: talk about your crush\u00a0 hug: how comfortable are you with physical contact?\u00a0 &ldquo;It\u2019s all right, though I prefer to be the one that initiates until I\u2019m very comfortable with a person. Handshakes are generally fine, but I\u2019m particularly sensitive to people touching my back when [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[85,15,128,607],"class_list":["post-743","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-backstrokefuturefish","tag-hakuba-bait","tag-memes","tag-valentines"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/whiteknighthakuba\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/743","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/whiteknighthakuba\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/whiteknighthakuba\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/whiteknighthakuba\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/whiteknighthakuba\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=743"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/whiteknighthakuba\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/743\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/whiteknighthakuba\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=743"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/whiteknighthakuba\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=743"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/whiteknighthakuba\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=743"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}