{"id":7011,"date":"2013-07-31T06:09:00","date_gmt":"2013-07-31T06:09:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/whiteknighthakuba\/index.php\/2013\/07\/31\/the-love-languages-results\/"},"modified":"2013-07-31T06:09:00","modified_gmt":"2013-07-31T06:09:00","slug":"the-love-languages-results","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/whiteknighthakuba\/index.php\/2013\/07\/31\/the-love-languages-results\/","title":{"rendered":"The Love Languages: RESULTS"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>From the test at\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.5lovelanguages.com\/\">http:\/\/www.5lovelanguages.com<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"image\" src=\"http:\/\/media.tumblr.com\/c28adbb2d9067643ee24fe7330c58b20\/tumblr_inline_mqsehhhfvt1qz4rgp.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Hakuba&rsquo;s scores:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Words of Affirmation (8)<\/li>\n<li>Receiving Gifts (8)<\/li>\n<li>Acts of Service (7)<\/li>\n<li>Quality Time (6)<\/li>\n<li>Physical Touch (1)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>((I imagine that the results will be somewhat different if he ever gets into a stable, loving, healthy relationship for any length of time&hellip; but, uh&hellip; wow.))<\/p>\n<p>Description of each behind the cut:<\/p>\n<p><!-- more --><\/p>\n<h4>Words of Affirmation<\/h4>\n<p>Actions don\u2019t always speak louder than words. If this is your love language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the words, \u201cI love you,\u201d are important\u2014hearing the reasons behind that love sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave you shattered and are not easily forgotten. You thrive on hearing kind and encouraging words that build you up.<\/p>\n<h4>Receiving Gifts<\/h4>\n<p>Don\u2019t mistake this love language for materialism; the receiver of gifts thrives on the love, thoughtfulness, and effort behind the gift. If you speak this language, the perfect gift or gesture shows that you are known, you are cared for, and you are prized above whatever was sacrificed to bring the gift to you. A missed birthday or a hasty, thoughtless gift would be disastrous\u2014so would the absence of everyday gestures. Gifts are heartfelt symbols to you of someone else\u2019s love and affection for you.<\/p>\n<h4>Acts of Service<\/h4>\n<p>Can helping with homework really be an expression of love? Absolutely! Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an \u201cActs of Service\u201d person will speak volumes. The words he or she most wants to hear: \u201cLet me do that for you.\u201d Laziness, broken commitments, and making more work for them tell speakers of this language their feelings don\u2019t matter. When others serve you out of love (and not obligation), you feel truly valued and loved.<\/p>\n<h4>Quality Time<\/h4>\n<p>In Quality Time, nothing says \u201cI love you\u201d like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there\u2014with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby\u2014makes you feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed activities, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful. Whether it\u02bcs spending uninterrupted time talking with someone else or doing activities<br \/>together, you deepen your connection with others through sharing time.<\/p>\n<h4>Physical Touch<\/h4>\n<p>A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, and thoughtful touches on the arm\u2014they can all be ways to show excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse can be unforgivable and destructive. Appropriate and timely touches communicate warmth, safety, and love to you.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>From the test at\u00a0http:\/\/www.5lovelanguages.com Hakuba&rsquo;s scores: Words of Affirmation (8) Receiving Gifts (8) Acts of Service (7) Quality Time (6) Physical Touch (1) ((I imagine that the results will be somewhat different if he ever gets into a stable, loving, healthy relationship for any length of time&hellip; but, uh&hellip; wow.)) Description of each behind the [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[5864,5866,5865],"class_list":["post-7011","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-go-figure-right","tag-just-wants-to-have-someone-tell-him-hes-okay","tag-the-one-who-spends-his-weekends-in-bed-with-strangers"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/whiteknighthakuba\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7011","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/whiteknighthakuba\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/whiteknighthakuba\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/whiteknighthakuba\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/whiteknighthakuba\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7011"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/whiteknighthakuba\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7011\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/whiteknighthakuba\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7011"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/whiteknighthakuba\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7011"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/whiteknighthakuba\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7011"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}