true love: do you believe in love at first sight?

“Yes and no. I believe that there are several different types of love, and that human beings experience several of them at any given time, but they, like most things in life, are cyclical in nature and overlap from time to time but not always. Love at first sight could be something in the way of physical attraction, a compatibility of spirit, an instant connection of some kind, kismet, etc… and those are forms of love, but are they true love? That depends on your definition, I suppose. Romantic love, I think is typically a combination of several other types of love… but it is not necessarily better or worse than any other…
"Can people ‘fall in love’ at first sight? Certainly. Will it last? That depends on the individuals. Has it happened before? I’m certain that it would be easy to find several instances where this is, indeed, the case. But there would probably be four or fives times as many where it has not lasted, or has been one-sided, or a variety of other such things…
"Relationships are complicated. They take a lot of work to create and maintain. To rely on only one factor of love, especially when it comes to the aforementioned cycles often results in a spark that fizzles and burns out. But, coupled with time, compatibility, friendship, etc… that sort of love can grow into something more sustainable."
chocolate: what would you most like to receive on valentine’s day?

"Honestly…? House plants.”