INFJs, making up an estimated 1% of all people, are the most rare type (males even more so). They are introspective, caring, sensitive, gentle and complex people that strive for peace and derive satisfaction from helping others. INFJs are highly intuitive, empathetic and dedicated listeners. These traits tend to act as a “tell me what’s wrong” sign on their forehead, hence the nicknames Confidant, Counselor or Empath. INFJs are intensely private and deeply committed to their beliefs.
STRENGTHS
- Warm and affirming by nature.
- Dedicated to achieving the ultimate relationship.
- Sensitive and concerned for others’ feelings.
- Usually have good communication skills, especially written.
- Take their commitments very seriously, and seek lifelong relationships.
- Have very high expectations for themselves and others.
- Good listeners.
- Are able to move on after a relationship has ended (once they’re sure it’s over).
WEAKNESSES
- Tendency to hold back part of themselves.
- Not good with money or practical day-to-day life necessities.
- Extreme dislike of conflict and criticism.
- Have very high expectations for themselves and others.
- Have difficulty leaving a bad relationship.