{"id":9865,"date":"2016-01-09T04:28:22","date_gmt":"2016-01-09T04:28:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/2016\/01\/09\/your-anxiety-isnt-an-excuse-to-be-an-asshole\/"},"modified":"2016-01-09T04:28:22","modified_gmt":"2016-01-09T04:28:22","slug":"your-anxiety-isnt-an-excuse-to-be-an-asshole","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/2016\/01\/09\/your-anxiety-isnt-an-excuse-to-be-an-asshole\/","title":{"rendered":"Your Anxiety Isn\u2019t An Excuse To Be An Asshole"},"content":{"rendered":"

Your Anxiety Isn\u2019t An Excuse To Be An Asshole<\/a><\/p>\n

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podunkmouse<\/a>:<\/p>\n

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budgiebin<\/a>:<\/p>\n

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catbountry<\/a>:<\/p>\n

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dubihyena<\/a>:<\/p>\n

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catbountry<\/a>:<\/p>\n

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bagelcollector<\/a>:<\/p>\n

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catbountry<\/a>:<\/p>\n

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Consider this mandatory reading.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

\u2026 introvert culture? How can that be a culture? I hate how it\u2019s being presented as a terrible thing, like if you\u2019re introverted you\u2019re contributing to a movement or something. Introversion is not<\/b> synonymous with asshole.\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Tumblr (and really, a lot of web communities) put introversion on a pedestal. Introverts are always thoughtful and smart and they like books and tea and they\u2019re not like those dumb ole\u2019 extroverts with their partying and being loud or whatever.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s<\/a> kind<\/a> of<\/a> become<\/a> a<\/a> thing.<\/a><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Yeah us introverts are just lazy. But you didn\u2019t need to write an article calling me lazy because I\u2019ve been told that MY ENTIRE LIFE.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Did you actually read the article at all, or\u2026?<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Of course not, Cat. that would require effort.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Am introvert. Read article. Head did not explode.<\/p>\n

TL;DR Do be concerned with caring for yourself. Do not expect the rest of the world to bend over backwards to cope with you. Everyone else has their own shit they have to deal with in life. Put in the time and effort to learn how you can meet the world somewhere in the middle. It will be more rewarding for the people in your life (family, friends, employers, etc.) and <\/b>yourself. Engaging in circle-jerks that coddle without encouraging self-improvement is not healthy or wise.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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