{"id":8622,"date":"2016-04-24T06:15:25","date_gmt":"2016-04-24T06:15:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/2016\/04\/24\/indig3nigga-homojabi-the-amount-of-lesbians\/"},"modified":"2016-04-24T06:15:25","modified_gmt":"2016-04-24T06:15:25","slug":"indig3nigga-homojabi-the-amount-of-lesbians","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/2016\/04\/24\/indig3nigga-homojabi-the-amount-of-lesbians\/","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a class=\"tumblr_blog\" href=\"http:\/\/indig3nigga.tumblr.com\/post\/142646787537\">indig3nigga<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><a class=\"tumblr_blog\" href=\"http:\/\/homojabi.tumblr.com\/post\/142487029937\">homojabi<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>The amount of lesbians who know that they\u2019re lesbians from a young age versus the amount of gay men who know that they\u2019re gay from a young age shows a staggering difference in that most lesbians take <i>way<\/i> longer to realize that they\u2019re gay.<\/p>\n<p>Girls are told that dating men is supposed to be hard and essentially unfulfilling. That it\u2019s normal to expend emotional and sexual labor without receiving anything or feeling anything in return. Girls are told that their attraction to men and relationships with men should be difficult and sometimes feel forced because men are so emotionally lacking or otherwise \u201chypermasculine\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Realizing that you don\u2019t like men because you\u2019re gay versus just feeling emotionally exhausted or unable\/unsure of how to \u201cplease\u201d men is part of the reason why compulsory heterosexuality is so damaging. It forces many girls to continue to date men and to keep trying to feel attraction to them long after they\u2019ve realized that there\u2019s nothing there\u2014particularly blaming themselves for the reasons why relationships with men don\u2019t work out instead of thinking it\u2019s an indicator of being gay, which most (though of course not all) gay men are able to recognize as an initial indicator.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Shit<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>indig3nigga: homojabi: The amount of lesbians who know that they\u2019re lesbians from a young age versus the amount of gay men who know that they\u2019re gay from a young age shows a staggering difference in that most lesbians take way longer to realize that they\u2019re gay. Girls are told that dating men is supposed to &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/2016\/04\/24\/indig3nigga-homojabi-the-amount-of-lesbians\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\"><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[869],"class_list":["post-8622","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-politics","without-featured-image"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8622","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8622"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8622\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8622"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8622"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8622"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}