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reginaeinferos<\/a>:<\/p>\n

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I recently saw a video of a young woman talking about all of the reasons our generation, the Millennials, sucks and that\u2019s she\u2019s sorry for what we\u2019ve become. Here is my, a fellow Millennial, response:<\/p>\n

You say we\u2019re just \u2018existing\u2019 and not \u2018contributing anything to society.\u2019 The oldest Millennial is 34, the youngest is 12, we haven\u2019t had time to contribute anything yet. We\u2019re trying to survive in a world that no other generation has had to grow up in, with a tanked economy and most of our childhood hearing nothing but war in the Middle East on the news while also being profoundly connected. We didn\u2019t do that. <\/p>\n

You say we\u2019re no longer polite, we don\u2019t say \u2018no, sir\u2019 or \u2018no ma\u2019am\u2019 anymore and we no longer hold the door open for our elders or women. We also don\u2019t expect low-paid workers to break their backs for us, or at yell at them when they make a mistake, like my 60-year-old grandfather does. We say \u2018no problem\u2019 when there\u2019s a mistake in order, and politely stand by while the 40-something-year-old soccer mom huffs and rolls her eyes as the new girl struggles to punch in the correct code.<\/p>\n

You say our music objectifies women and glorifies drugs and criminals. There has been no significant change from the songs that were once sung or the singers who sang them. Many of the 50\u2019s, 60\u2019s, 70\u2019s, and 80\u2019s performers were drug addicts, womanizers, and criminals in their own right. Elvis Presley was child abuser, John Lennon raped his many girlfriends and most of the music I grew up listening, which was 80\u2019s rock, were performed by habitual drug abusers. Let\u2019s not pretend like human nature took a drastic turn when 1983 rolled around.<\/p>\n

You say we cuss to prove a point. We, as a generation, have learned it\u2019s not the words we fucking use, it\u2019s the passion in them that we care about. As a generation, we\u2019ve become more interested in politics and the world around us, cursing is minor problem when we consider the political climate the older generation has plunged us into.<\/p>\n

You say we use \u2018bae\u2019 to describe the ones we love. Bae, originally, means \u2018before anyone else\u2019 which is incredibly romantic in my opinion. Bae is also hardly ever taken seriously, it\u2019s a jokey way to talk about someone you love. Language changes, I doubt people were happy when we changed \u2018wherefore\u2019 into \u2018why.\u2019 The greatest injustice we can do to our language and culture is not allow it to evolve and grow with us. <\/p>\n

You say we idolize people like Kim Kardashian and shame people like Tim Tebow. Kim Kardashian is a business woman who had a private video she made with a lover illegally revealed. Instead of fading into obscurity, she stood tall and did not let the sexual shaming she endured stop her and now runs a multi-million dollar industry, is married to one of the richest men in the world, and had two beautiful children. Tim Tebow is a Christian who was criticized by a few people for praying in an open stadium while most people just wanted to see a game.<\/p>\n

You say we\u2019re lazy and entitled, we want to make a lot of money and get a free education but we\u2019re not willing to put in the work. We are not lazy. I cannot tell you how many people I meet who have gone to school full time while working a part or even full-time job just to make ends meet. We\u2019re not entitled, we\u2019re bitter. In the 70\u2019s, you could work a part time job over the summer and pay your way through four years of school because tuition was $400, now just to walk in the door of your local community college you need to drop $14,000. We have kids who aren\u2019t even old enough to drink, yet are already $20,000 deep in debt. Debt that won\u2019t go away because even filing for bankruptcy won\u2019t erase it. And even with that education, there\u2019s no guarantee you\u2019ll find something in your field. I have a friend who has a degree in microbiology and she\u2019s making $9 an hour selling $15 candles. I have another friend who has a masters in Sport Psychology and Counseling. She\u2019s a bartender. My parents bought a three bedroom house in the suburbs in the late 90\u2019s while my generation is imagining apartments with breezy windows and trying to get enough money to get food while we scrounge up less than $8 a week.<\/p>\n

You say we spend more time online making friends and less time building relationships and our relationship\u2019s appearance on Facebook is more important than building the foundation that relationship is based on. We are a generation that is profoundly connected and no other generation has seen this before. We have more opportunities to meet people from all over the world and better chances to understand other worldviews and lifestyles. Being able to stay home and talk to people over the internet is cheaper and more relaxing than having to force yourself to interact with people in public settings after a long day of minimum wage labor. The people I talk to more over the internet are people I have been friends with for years. It\u2019s easier to talk about the day\u2019s events over Skype or Facebook Messenger than arrange a day to meet in person when you have conflicting schedules. I truly don\u2019t believe most people care what others think of their friendship or how their relationships \u2018look\u2019 on social media. Most often what you are calling \u2018our relationship\u2019s appearance on Facebook\u2019 are documented and searchable memories.<\/p>\n

You say our idea of what we believe in is going on Facebook and posting a status on Facebook. Not everyone can join in with the crowds of protesters. It\u2019s easy to see what others have to say through the comments and argue back without the threat of violence. And when this generation does organize events to stand up for ourselves, it\u2019s met with childish name-calling or being reduced to a \u2018riot.\u2019<\/p>\n

You say we believe the number of follows we have reflects who we are as a person. It\u2019s nice knowing there\u2019s 20 or 50 or maybe even 100 people who care what you have to say or think. We live in an age where we can and will be heard.<\/p>\n

You say we don\u2019t respect our elders, that we don\u2019t respect our country. Our elders grew up in one of the greatest economic booms in history and in turn made it the worst economic situation since the 1930\u2019s all while blaming kids who were only five at the time for it. We stand on our flag because it means nothing, it\u2019s a pretty banner for an ugly lie. We\u2019re a country that says you can make it if you just work hard enough while, in the end, that will almost never happen. We\u2019re a country that becomes irate at the idea of 20-something college kids standing on some canvas dyed red, white, and blue but seem to shrug off the millions of homeless, disabled veterans. <\/p>\n

You say we\u2019re more divided than ever before. Ever before what? When black folk couldn\u2019t drink from the same fountain as white folk? When women couldn\u2019t vote? When white southerners fought for the idea that they could keep black people as slaves? We\u2019re a generation that is done with injustice and when you fight for social change, you will divide people.<\/p>\n

You say everything that was frowned up is celebrated. What does that mean? We frowned up gay marriage. We frowned upon wives being able to say no to sex with their husbands. We frowned up interracial marriage. We frowned up black folk being allowed to go to school with white folk. We frowned upon women being allowed to vote. Are those things not worth celebrating?<\/p>\n

You say nothing has value in our generation, that we take advantage of everything. We value friendship more, we value the fists of change, we value social justice and family and the right to marry those we love. We value the right to be yourself, wholly and fully. We value the right to choose and we value the idea of fighting what you believe in, even when everyone older than you is telling you you\u2019re what\u2019s wrong with the country.<\/p>\n

You say we have more opportunities to succeed than those before but we don\u2019t \u2018appreciate\u2019 them. We are a bitter generation. You can finance a boat for 3.9% but you have to pay back college tuition plus 8.9%. We may have more opportunities but those opportunities cost money we don\u2019t have.<\/p>\n

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You say you can see why we\u2019re called \u2018Generation,\u2019 but we\u2019re not Generation Y, we\u2019re Millennials and we do feel entitled. We were promised a strong economy and inexpensive education. We had the world in our hands and we were going to make it better. And it was ripped away from us because of incompetent rulers, illegal wars, and greedy corporations and we get blamed for it. Crime has gone down, abortion and unintended pregnancy has lowered, people are living longer, people are more educated, people are less likely to die from violent crime or diseases, yet my generation is touted as the worst generation and for what? Crimes that we\u2019re accused of that happened before we could even wipe our own ass? We were raised better, and we were raised in a society that treated, and continues to treat, us like garbage. And we are done. We are not sorry, we did nothing wrong. <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

reginaeinferos: I recently saw a video of a young woman talking about all of the reasons our generation, the Millennials, sucks and that\u2019s she\u2019s sorry for what we\u2019ve become. Here is my, a fellow Millennial, response: You say we\u2019re just \u2018existing\u2019 and not \u2018contributing anything to society.\u2019 The oldest Millennial is 34, the youngest is … Continue reading <\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[3003,3095],"class_list":["post-7684","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-im-crying","tag-political","without-featured-image"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7684","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7684"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7684\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7684"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7684"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7684"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}