{"id":20623,"date":"2015-07-05T19:22:58","date_gmt":"2015-07-05T19:22:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/2015\/07\/05\/sonypraystation-i-really-am-a-text-me-if-you-2\/"},"modified":"2015-07-05T19:22:58","modified_gmt":"2015-07-05T19:22:58","slug":"sonypraystation-i-really-am-a-text-me-if-you-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/2015\/07\/05\/sonypraystation-i-really-am-a-text-me-if-you-2\/","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/sonypraystation.tumblr.com\/post\/119791215587\/i-really-am-a-text-me-if-you-need-something\" class=\"tumblr_blog\">sonypraystation<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>i really am a \u201ctext me if you need something\u201d person. like unless i have something specific to talk about, i don\u2019t usually initiate a conversation. if you wanna talk just to talk then im all here but dont take me not hittin you up as me not caring.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Reblogging here because it is incredibly important. I was brought up in a family that did not initiate contact unless there was a reason for it. I have been conditioned not to\u00a0\u201cbother\u201d people unless I have to, and even then I will probably try everything on my own first. This means two things:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>If I ask you for help, I have exhausted every other option that I\u2019m aware of and am hoping that you will be willing to help me without patronizing me (but if you do that it\u2019s my own fault and I should have been able to figure it out on my own)<\/li>\n<li>if you ask for help, I will assume that you\u2019ve done everything in your power to solve whatever problem, and if there is any way that I can help you, I\u2019m going to try to, and I\u2019m most likely not gonna give you any attitude about it. Unless, you know, I find out that you\u2019re just being a whiney boobit&hellip; in which case I\u2019ll roll my eyes and still probably help you.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>But if you just want to talk, please approach me. I\u2019m happy to talk! I love people and friends and everything! I\u2019m just very well-practiced at keeping myself entertained until someone needs me for something. Hence why I am always busy. Because I am. \u00a0That\u2019s what I\u2019m supposed to do. There are always tons of things to do.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>sonypraystation: i really am a \u201ctext me if you need something\u201d person. like unless i have something specific to talk about, i don\u2019t usually initiate a conversation. if you wanna talk just to talk then im all here but dont take me not hittin you up as me not caring. Reblogging here because it is &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/2015\/07\/05\/sonypraystation-i-really-am-a-text-me-if-you-2\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\"><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[52,576],"class_list":["post-20623","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-me","tag-psa","without-featured-image"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20623","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20623"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20623\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20623"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20623"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20623"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}