{"id":13157,"date":"2013-05-23T08:55:19","date_gmt":"2013-05-23T08:55:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/2013\/05\/23\/you-can-ship-something-and\/"},"modified":"2013-05-23T08:55:19","modified_gmt":"2013-05-23T08:55:19","slug":"you-can-ship-something-and","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/2013\/05\/23\/you-can-ship-something-and\/","title":{"rendered":"you can ship something and"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a class=\"tumblr_blog\" href=\"http:\/\/veliseraptor.tumblr.com\/post\/39689633237\/you-can-ship-something-and\">veliseraptor<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><a class=\"tumblr_blog\" href=\"http:\/\/arianne-of-porne.tumblr.com\/post\/39671465250\/you-can-ship-something-and\">arianne-of-porne<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<ul>\n<li>still understand and respect that a particular character wouldn\u2019t be into the relationship at that point in time or ever<\/li>\n<li>accept it if the characters never get together in canon<\/li>\n<li>be completely fine with other people not shipping it<\/li>\n<li>not hate the characters\u2019 canon relationships or romantic\/sexual partners<\/li>\n<li>realize that being in a sexual\/romantic relationship with the other character(s), or with anyone at all, might not be healthy for one or both of the characters<\/li>\n<li>if the characters are already in a sexual\/romantic relationship with each other, acknowledge that there are things about that relationship that are fucked up and unhealthy<\/li>\n<li>admit each character\u2019s faults honestly and not excuse them (understanding =\/= excusing)<\/li>\n<li>differentiate between what you want to see in canon and what you want to write\/read about in fic\/see in art<\/li>\n<li>understand that ships serve different needs for different people; not every ship or representation of a ship is about healthy, loving romantic relationships. Some ships are about unhealthy codependency; some are about hatesex. Ships are a way of working out fantasies that we can\u2019t and sometimes shouldn\u2019t fulfill in real life, or about working through real-life fears, hopes, and pains. Writing something is not tantamount to saying \u201cthis is 100% awesome\u201d. Sometimes we have to indulge our ids, and that doesn\u2019t mean we get a free pass to not think about issues of representation or ensure that the people reading our fics know what to expect, but it all comes down to, for me, <em>the fact that life is too fucking short and painful to have to feel like shit for what goes on in our heads so long as it doesn\u2019t hurt anyone else.\u00a0<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>this is relevant to my interests<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>veliseraptor: arianne-of-porne: still understand and respect that a particular character wouldn\u2019t be into the relationship at that point in time or ever accept it if the characters never get together in canon be completely fine with other people not shipping it not hate the characters\u2019 canon relationships or romantic\/sexual partners realize that being in a &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/2013\/05\/23\/you-can-ship-something-and\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">you can ship something and<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[777,4314,4313,91,1192,2357,2034],"class_list":["post-13157","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-au","tag-fakerp","tag-hahahahha","tag-omg","tag-rp","tag-sundown","tag-yesgood","without-featured-image"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13157","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13157"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13157\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13157"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13157"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13157"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}