{"id":12127,"date":"2014-02-05T04:05:54","date_gmt":"2014-02-05T04:05:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/2014\/02\/05\/if-standing-up-for-yourself-ruins-a-relationship\/"},"modified":"2014-02-05T04:05:54","modified_gmt":"2014-02-05T04:05:54","slug":"if-standing-up-for-yourself-ruins-a-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/2014\/02\/05\/if-standing-up-for-yourself-ruins-a-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p>If standing up for yourself ruins a relationship, the relationship was already ruined. You just slapped a \u2018condemned\u2019 sticker on it and evicted a squatter is all.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<div class='attribution'><a href=\"http:\/\/captainawkward.com\/2013\/08\/09\/501-502-when-directness-politeness\/#comment-61707\">A comment<\/a> on \u2018When directness &gt; nice\u2019 (Captain Awkward)<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If standing up for yourself ruins a relationship, the relationship was already ruined. You just slapped a \u2018condemned\u2019 sticker on it and evicted a squatter is all. A comment on \u2018When directness &gt; nice\u2019 (Captain Awkward)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"quote","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[4143],"class_list":["post-12127","post","type-post","status-publish","format-quote","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-fuck-yes","post_format-post-format-quote","without-featured-image"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12127","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12127"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12127\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12127"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12127"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12127"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}