{"id":11363,"date":"2014-10-26T00:42:56","date_gmt":"2014-10-26T00:42:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/2014\/10\/26\/iluvchrom-what-the-fuck-at-all-of-these-posts\/"},"modified":"2014-10-26T00:42:56","modified_gmt":"2014-10-26T00:42:56","slug":"iluvchrom-what-the-fuck-at-all-of-these-posts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/2014\/10\/26\/iluvchrom-what-the-fuck-at-all-of-these-posts\/","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a class=\"tumblr_blog\" href=\"http:\/\/iluvchrom.tumblr.com\/post\/100170709164\/wtf-the-fuck-at-all-of-these-posts-im-seeing-on\">iluvchrom<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>what the fuck at all of these posts i\u2019m seeing on my dash defending outright emotional manipulation and abuse in relationships in general.<\/p>\n<p><strong>if you are at a point in your relationship with someone where:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>they are openly (however passive aggressively) jealous about you spending time with people who aren\u2019t them<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>they demand your attention above everyone else\u2019s or above other things you have going on in your life<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>they force you to\u00a0fulfill\u00a0a quota of communication with\u00a0them every day like communication with them is something you owe them instead of something that should come naturally for both of you<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>you have to walk on eggshells around them to avoid making them angry at you<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>they refuse to\u00a0apologize\u00a0for treating you badly because \u201cthey can\u2019t help it\u201d<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>you feel guilty doing things that aren\u2019t talking to them in case it upsets them<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>if you are generally interacting with them out of a perceived obligation or fear of upsetting them rather than a genuine desire to speak to them<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>A MULTITUDE OF REALLY UNHEALTHY SHIT<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>that is not healthy. that is not a sign of a healthy relationship. stop defending this shit.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>iluvchrom: what the fuck at all of these posts i\u2019m seeing on my dash defending outright emotional manipulation and abuse in relationships in general. if you are at a point in your relationship with someone where: they are openly (however passive aggressively) jealous about you spending time with people who aren\u2019t them they demand your &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/2014\/10\/26\/iluvchrom-what-the-fuck-at-all-of-these-posts\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\"><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[3037],"class_list":["post-11363","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-truth","without-featured-image"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11363","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11363"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11363\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11363"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11363"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11363"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}