{"id":10997,"date":"2015-08-09T06:24:45","date_gmt":"2015-08-09T06:24:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/2015\/08\/09\/transcendentalbrilliance-its-not-normal-for\/"},"modified":"2015-08-09T06:24:45","modified_gmt":"2015-08-09T06:24:45","slug":"transcendentalbrilliance-its-not-normal-for","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/2015\/08\/09\/transcendentalbrilliance-its-not-normal-for\/","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"

transcendentalbrilliance<\/a>:<\/p>\n

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it\u2019s not normal for your boyfriend to ignore you when you want to talk to him.<\/p>\n

it\u2019s not normal for your boyfriend to shove you when he\u2019s angry.<\/p>\n

it\u2019s not normal for your boyfriend to call you a dumbass or a bitch when you\u2019re in an argument.<\/p>\n

it\u2019s not normal for your boyfriend to threaten to leave the relationship every time you defend yourself.<\/p>\n

it\u2019s not normal for your boyfriend to invalidate your feelings.<\/p>\n

it\u2019s not normal for your boyfriend to not tell you who he\u2019s with or where he\u2019s going.<\/p>\n

it\u2019s not normal for your boyfriend to keep making the same detrimental mistake over and over.<\/p>\n

it\u2019s not normal for your boyfriend to use your insecurities against you.<\/p>\n

it\u2019s not normal for your boyfriend to make you feel guilty for having desires and needs.<\/p>\n

it\u2019s not normal for your boyfriend to tell you that you\u2019re stupid when you cry.<\/p>\n

it\u2019s not normal for your boyfriend to cheat on you because he\u2019s \u201cjust a stupid guy.\u201d<\/p>\n

it\u2019s not normal for your boyfriend to rely on you when he doesn\u2019t do a thing for himself.<\/p>\n

it\u2019s not normal for your boyfriend to hurt you intentionally.<\/p>\n

please stop normalizing toxic romantic relationships. it\u2019s not healthy for your partner to upset you and behave recklessly as long as he apologizes later. apologies mean nothing after he has repeatedly disrespected you. kisses and hugs mean nothing after he has repeatedly disrespected you. public displays of affection mean nothing after he has repeatedly disrespected you. promises mean nothing after he has repeatedly disrespected you. it is not okay for him to hurt you physically or emotionally because he said he\u2019ll change. he hasn\u2019t. he won\u2019t. get out now because THIS! IS! NOT! NORMAL! other couples do not go through this. other couples did NOT have to go through this to be in a happy, wholesome place.<\/p>\n

he is manipulative and selfish and he is making you weak every time you agree to stay. even when you feel like \u201cmaybe this time, things will be okay,\u201d they won\u2019t \u2013 that\u2019s what he wants you to think so you never slip from his grasp. you know as well as i do you\u2019re 50 times overdue for \u201cthis is his last chance.\u201d this is not normal.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

transcendentalbrilliance: it\u2019s not normal for your boyfriend to ignore you when you want to talk to him. it\u2019s not normal for your boyfriend to shove you when he\u2019s angry. it\u2019s not normal for your boyfriend to call you a dumbass or a bitch when you\u2019re in an argument. it\u2019s not normal for your boyfriend to … Continue reading <\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[1035,618],"class_list":["post-10997","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-accurate","tag-important","without-featured-image"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10997","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10997"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10997\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10997"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10997"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/archive.gabapple.com\/tumblr\/gabapple\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10997"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}